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Christine Murray's avatar

I was born in 1966, so I received First Communion on the tongue. Since it was the Silly 70s(TM) the CCD powers that be thought it would be good to receive individually, sitting with parents, wearing nothing special. Then in the spring, the whole class got together dressed like First Communicants for a "Solemn Communion." We all stood at the Communion rail. I remember it being used and thought all of us standing in front of it was dumb.

In 1977, Father stood and the ambo (I still vividly remember this) and read the Cardinals letter saying Communion in the hand was being allowed but we had a choice whether to receive on the tongue or in the hand.

I received in the hand just a few times. However, I felt uncomfortable receiving that way and it seemed like I was holding a hot potato. When I complained about it, my Mom said, "Father said you don't have to receive that way, so don't." And I think I have only received once in the hand since, in college, when we were given crumbly bread that a parishioner had baked at home. Actually, I'm not sure that counts because based on a recipe I saw several years later, it was likely invalid matter. In the Covid era, I was refused on the tongue once. I just shook my head and walked away. Didn't even think about it.

Several years ago, I researched a bunch into Communion in the hand. I came to the conclusion that Cardinal Carberry (not my archdiocese) was the driving force behind holding off Communion in the hand in the USA until 1977. Without his efforts, I'm pretty certain it would have passed the bishops conference with the required 2/3 in 1970. I owe him a lot. My first Communion was in December 1973. I have a Mass said for the repose of his soul every year.

Your efforts weren't in vain, Your Eminence. It did matter. It mattered to me.

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Brian L's avatar

I was born in 1977, so Communion in the Hand has always been around, but I have some childhood memories (in the Philly suburbs) that are very different from where we've gotten to now.

First, at my 1st Communion (1985) I remember instruction on both means to receive and emphasis on careful and reverent reception. I imagine most or all of us received on the hand, but it was neither assumed nor insisted upon.

The communion rail was never removed from our church, and I can picture it being used a bit early on, but it must have only been on special occasions. I don't know what qualified as special.

I remember minimal use of EHMCs, and if a non-celebrating priest was in the rectory he nearly always walked over and assisted with distribution in cassock and stole.

As an altar boy (87-91), we used patens during distribution. I guess they went away in the 90s sometime. Reinstating those seems like low hanging fruit for the Eucharistic revival. Even if receiving by hand, the paten underneath conveys a message of the seriousness of dropping the Host.

I started receiving regularly on the tongue in 2006 when I had my infant son in my arms for a few Sundays in a row; then one week when I didn't I reflexively still received on the tongue. And thought, 'ok, I guess that's how I receive now'. Receiving in the hand again for a period during the pandemic was surprisingly difficult for me.

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